Well, here is my take on it. If it doesn't nourish a marriage, it's wrong. So, if a wife refuses to have a sexual relationship with her husband and he chooses to get a release from the computer, which one is wrong? Both?

Kate, maybe this is a payback to your mom because of her treatment of your father. Maybe this is the only way he knows to get even, so to speak. Maybe he just go tired of the control and is striking back.

In Florida, the mayor began posting the names in the local newspaper of men (most elderly) who had been arrested for soliciting prostitutes. The incidence of HIV was rising among the elderly and the mayor wanted to warn their wives through this venue. She didn't want the men passing on the HIV to their wives. I guess it's more prevelent than we all realize.

So, I guess my question would be: Which is worse. Searching the Internet looking at pictures or actively seeking sex from a woman on the street? Both wrong but I'd take the Internet sex over in person acts.