OOPS! I guess my post wasn't clear! I was replying to Dianne's post about some people judging her and saying that battered women like being battered. What I meant was that battered women do not like it, they are sometimes staying with the man because they love them and hope to change them. I was saying that whoever would judge battered woman, or Dianne for working with them, are the twisted ones. I apologize if anyone thought I meant the women or Dianne were twisted.
Just goes to show how I can write something with one intention and it could be read so differently. I will try to be more careful in my wording.