Well starting over, my work is in several areas. I am a foster care giver for abused and/or abandened animals until permanent homes can be found which I do for free. I am also an Activity Director of sorts for a nursing home, I make special meals for them on occassion, also a volunteer job. Recently I started a new business doing paperwork for Realtors in my home, that is really beginning to take off but sketchy and not able to pay my living expenses yet....I have done phone sex actress work sincde 1985 when I needed to work from home to be there for my sons. I have always done very well with it and make good money. I began to write and sell my stories of Erotica to several magazines. I also write freelance, poems, flash fiction etc. Phone actress work became a counciling job for me as well. Many of these men are miserable, lonely or just bored, some are selfish and the things they likie they don't feel they can share with their spouseor friends. I am an anonymous voice on the phone and you wouldn't belive what they will confide in me. I have assisted hundreds of these men in how to be more of a husband, what women want and why. Not all of it is sexual conversation believe me. I am not the norm however most of phone sex is a woman talking about sexual things and the man "tickling his fancy" so to speak. I have been interviewed for Jennifer Laurens Solo Bliss's website and have a article there under Work....also appear in Releasing Times Magazine by Julie Gallagher and in a new book coming out in 2006 by Joan Price
called: Better Than I Ever Expected: Talk About Sex After Sixty....Sex is here to stay and interesting to many people. My job's unique and takes a certain kind of talent. I can and have done many things in my long life but this is so easy andthe money is so good that I am spoiled. I have no out of pocket expenses and make a good living. Would I appreciate me if I were some mans wife, hell no! But I don't call them, they call me. I can call in or ot whenever ai choose and can work any part of 24/7. Its great for shut-ins, or people unable to work outside the home for any reason. I could appear on Oprah or Dr. Phil and give both a run for their money conversation wise. I also have written two different relationship advice columns.

I do not carry my work home so to speak, once I call off I forget about it. Read the article on Solo Bliss or in Releasing Times it tells it like it is. I too was a victim of porn with my ex, SLUGGO! But he liked the real thing and young, very very young...sick man! Lets just say I hear the worst side of some of these married loser types and dislike them intently but do like the ability to be able to work at home and make a good living. I've turned it into a game and that works for me. I am an actress and nothing more. In all honesty I would rather make my living with my Mystery writing but that hasn't happened yet. I do answer any and all questions (in private emails) you ladies might have. Hey its free and good advice and in the strictest of confidence...pull up a couch Dr. Love will see you now. LOL

[ October 12, 2005, 09:38 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]