Kay5, I saw that show too and was disturbed by the "boys will be boys" tone to the discussion. I couldn't discern whether the guys were being flippant because they were embarrassed by their "exposure" or because they truly believed what they were saying. I also couldn't decide if Oprah realized early on that a serious discussion wasn't going to be possible with these three particular guests and so just decided (as if she had a choice?) to go with the flow, as distasteful as it was at times. I too was surprised that she allowed it to go that way.

I was rather disgusted by some of the flippant comments that were being made that effectively squelched any possible objection to the subject. My husband was watching with me and even he was put off by the comedic atmosphere and would have preferred a more mature "real" discussion on the subject matter.