China,then leave now while you are still young.

Chatty, I hope you know that I think you are right otherwise prostitution would not be flourishing.

But I would just like men to know that maybe their wives don't see them as some Adonis either. There is probably more than one wife out there who fantasizes about a young man with a healthy, muscular body when her soft-body, balding, bad breath husband is trying to be amorous.

Men don't see this about themselves because most women aren't crude. We try to soften their egos and tell them "it's okay." Many men with big egos actually love hearing this and begin to believe it themselves.

Chatty, not too long ago you gave a bit of humorous advice about getting a "big rubber friend." What if China gets some Playgirl Magazines (are they even still in publication)?

I do heartily agree that pornography in any form is harmful to a marriage. The testimony here is proof of that.