I just want to thank you girls for all your advice. Everything that you all have said makes so much scence. Right now it is Saturday morning, still no words said. One friend said do not do anything drastic, so I plan to call a lawyer on Monday and find out what my rights are in Maryland. Then I need to buy a car. We have one, because he drives the company truck. He is in contruction. Writing this all out helps me too. I have to say my ego is crushed and I feel like a fool. How did I get into this mess. I am an educated woman!!!!!