Ladybug, that is so true! Now that I am at THAT..age...I know how it feels to still be young at heart, still full of life, but not have the stereotypical body of the centerfold.
I don't know about anyone else, but for me the biggest turn-on ever is the man who smiles into your eyes, who looks at you with such appreciation and love. Gentle touching and doing little things that say they have you on their mind.
I think men are intimidated by the older more experienced female who is educated and seasoned. As my husband explained it to me, the young girl is impressed with everything they do, laughs at their jokes and think they are funny. He says they are easily impressed, hot and if you have enough money they will do anything to impress him.
I don't think I like him very much...