China, China its not any particular nationality of man that sucks, most of them do! One council I can offer you is 'bide your time,' by that I mean get some facts together for the attorney, and save all the money you can for your move and new life. Open a private acount, secretely. Definitely get a dependable car. Did this slug put your name on the home because if he did and Maryland is a share property state you can get half that house even after only a year. He is the bad guy here remember that and don't worry about his ignoring you he will eventually get a "you know what" and come sniffing around. YOU IGNORE HIM....Do you ave some friends you can go out with, don't be home when he gets there, go see a movie if need be. As long as he is ignoring you, sleep on the sofa or in the spare room and don't cook or wash clothes for him. You ladies have leverage if you're smart enough to use it. I did and drove my ex totally nuts before kicking him out....Be smart, be in control and when he wants to talk just tell him he can't have it both ways. He can either love and respect you and the marriage or he can have his porn and thats all, maybe one of his make believe sex partners will wash his dirty underwear or cook his meals, NOT!!!

Oh and Ladybug, sorry but I have to disagree about women fantasizing about young hard bodied men. Women don't do that very often and nmost of us don't notice the balding, the belly and the other less that wonderful things that occur to our men. We seem to be able to love them just the same. Hell somrtimes we love them even more. Its them not us that fantasize. I think if you quiz the gals you'll find out I'm right....