Number 5 - well, good, get him out of there. And guess what, family does come first. Chosen your daughter and grand daughter over him. Well, he has chosen PORN over you, and that 23 yo over you. Hello, please don't even have your daughter and grd near him. You know I feel so much better already. My confusion is gone, no more snooping because it is real. Now I just need to keep this strengh up. And, sooner or later have to tell my 84 year old Mom. She will be devastated. I will wait for that. I am upset enough as it is, I do not need her questions right now.