The whole porn thing is a problem. I really think lots, and I mean lots, of men do this. It bothers me a lot and I did confront my husband a few months ago. Seems to have stopped now so I feel better. Our sex life has always been good, so it wasn't so much that the porn caused problems in the bedroom, but it made me feel bad. Like I wasn't good enough for him. Although he uses the same old excuse that he is just looking, it really hurts the trust factor.