AMEN to that Daisygirl and you and Smile are absolutely right....My ex had to be in the strip clubs all the time and since I kicked him to the curb he doesn't go at all anymore and is constatly trying to get me to take him back, its his life ambition I think. Why do these jokers always want what they can't have? He had me once and screwed it up, I learned my lesson now he had better learn his and hit the rode...