Where the hell are this girls parents???? Your son sounds like a real loser and user. Sorry but HE has put you in this position because HE couldn't keep it zipped or use protection. I know how hard being a good mother is when it means risking being tough but if you aren't comfortable with this situation, change it...You dear lady are not responsible for the illegitimate child they created and your son the football player will never become a man if you allow him to make life altering mistakes and then just saunder away to college and leave you and this girl holding the bag.....Simple situation really, either you like it and her and her brood or not and if not show her the door OR help her get settled in a home for her type or with her own people. And don't look back. Good luck and be sure to let lover boy know that if he impregnates another girl not to bring her home to mama.....