Hello all and thanks for your input, again.

The update on this stinky sticky situation is that I still never mustered up the nerves to tell her to leave. But, things do work out.

She overheard me telling my son that is living with a relative while he awaits an opening in the dormitory, to get up and don't be a burden. I was telling him that he's not anyone's responsibity and all of that good stuff. Meanwhile, I was boiling about the home situation that 'I let' him create for me with 'his' extra borders.

She must've felt the vibe, or could tell that I was getting ready to tell her to leave. She told me that she is going to go somewhere else.

She's packing now. I feel sad for her. It is obvious that she does not understand 'adulthood.' Well, obviously, since she has three children out of wedlock, she will have to learn the hard way.

Please keep this young lady in prayer.

Sheree