Which brings up another question...what about your grandchild? Is your son sure it's his child? I'm such a softie with my grandkids, I'd end up adopting the baby, which brings up all kinds of nightmares but it seems obvious that this poor woman/girl isn't in a position to raise any children and somebody needs to have a serious talk with her about birth control. Maybe she gets her attention being pregnant...sadly. Sugar, this is such a sad situation.