BEST ACVICE was a few posts above:

NEVER MARRY A MAN WITH CHILDREN

Unless you've met them, spent time together and really get along or as you have experienced, your just asking for trouble. Men are so immature to begin with and he seems really stupid...Sorry but thats the way I see it. How did you ever become involved in a situation like this? Be strong and don't take any crap from these brats or him either... [Mad]