I married my DH when his kids were 23 and 25 and already on their own.(9+ years ago) They just met me the night before we married. Yes, it was QUICKLY and NO, we did not HAVE to get married...we wanted to.

Anyway, they reflect their Dad. Wonderful adults.....kind, considerate, respectful and accepting of me. I would not have traded this way for any other. No, U'm not their Mom, but legally I have the same responsibility as one. So, I like it!