I havre not been on the forums lately because of moving but this subject is close to my heart since I am the step mom to an adult daughter.

So many issues....her relationship with me, her relationship with her Dad, How does he feel about it all, her relationship with our son. how does she feel about his adoption. How does he feel about her. the list goes on and on.

I have read many posts here but the topic was one that I had to giove lots of backgound or not relevant.

I could use lots of advice here. Daughter is not and has not been great since begining. Lots of disappointments all around.

If you can, leave it.

Lynn