Dianne, a betrayal by someone we loved and trusted is the worst kind of pain and the hardest to forgive if in fact one can forgive. I have a very long memory and forgiveness does not come easy. If you hurt me personally I can forgive easier than if you hurt someone I truly care about, like my sons. There is some old saying about "if you kill the goose you may as well eat it cause it ain't comin back no more." Seems appropriate don't you think? [Wink]