Boy! sandi, you're a better sport than I am. I'm rethinking a lot of my "firmly held beliefs" right now, trying to either codify them or trash them. I do that occasionally.

I'm not sure if that would draw my husband closer or send him further into la la land. I just don't know, but I applaud your laisse faire attitude(sp??)

My husband is an alcoholic. I guess it would make him happy for me to buy him an expensive bottle of whisky or rum....(hummmmm) [Roll Eyes]