Number 5, take that money you were thinking of spending on his expensive whiskey and put it in that bank acct you opened. As for him, he just has to help himself. My father was an alcoholic,
my brother took 2 yrs to join AA (today he is a recovering alcoholic for 25 yrs) my other brother was an alcoholic and committed suicide.
Trust me, please...you say your prayers, pray for courage to End this marriage, take what you can, get out...you sound like you've had some life, so you've "been there, done that" and this should be a piece of cake. Or you will continue to be a co-dependent, and that's no where to be. Forget the material things, you need to get out and spend some time healing. God Bless.