Number 5
I agree with Sandi.....you should also see if they have any co-dependency groups in your area...it is a wonderful place to be when you are trying to move on....I have attended several sessions and I can say, with experience, that you learn about YOU and what YOUR needs are...not want someone else wants you to be or do...
God Bless you in all that you do!!! We have but one life so we should LIVE it!!
Pepper (KC)