First of all Pugma, welcome to the Boomer site. Second Dianne is totally correct. These hateful people do the things they do for the reaction they get from their prey, thats you! Ignore her and her children and hopefully they'll either go away or learn from your example the correct way to behave. You will soon have a beautiful sweet new baby and this should be the focus of your life. I hate to be blunt but if the husband does not behave well towards this new child then I wouldn't waste one more minute of my life with him. Remember the worst thing you can do to this EX, is to be unscathed by her meaness and live, love, laugh and be happy. He is your husband now...It will drive her nuts, remember NO reaction to her is best always, she is looking for one,lol

[ August 15, 2005, 01:38 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]