If you know and can prove that a person is a danger to themselves or others, you can have them committed to an institution where they are dealt with by professionals. Would your husband do this?

If he has no impulse control, there is nothing to stop him from acting on his violent thoughts and feelings toward you or others. I know you'd also hate that he hurt another kid at school and it could have been prevented.

I'm really sorry you're in the middle of this very scary situation but I'm also really glad you found us. Please be careful and stay safe.