AMEN to that Dianne. How dare that alcoholic piece of garbage make such demands on you. He is trying to sculpt the perfect women when he himself is such an imperfect specimen of a man...God my blood just began to boil...the nerve of him. I know you could use him for sex but personally I would rather eat dirt. #5 I hope you stick to your guns of freedom and make this happen for yourself but its your decision, you have the problems to face so whatever you decide so be it. Just remember you deserve better and won't find it dragging on after the drunk....