Wise words searcher.
Number 5, yes, Jesus says to love your enemy. But remember the translations that have occurred. The word love was translated from three different words. Love doesn't always mean romantic love. Terrorists are our enemies. We can love them, pray for them, etc. But we don't need to support them and put ourselves in harm's way. Would you sit with your grandchild in a cafe that you knew a terrorist would bomb? I hope not. Warren is a terrorist in his own way. He terrorises you. Even if it's only on your days off. It's still harmful to you and your soul and your grandchild's soul. Yes, you are doing everything you can for her, but take care of you, too. By being strong and healthy (mentally as well as physically), you can provide the best support for all your children. Being yanked around emotionally by this person is not healthy.

By letting this man treat you the way he does, by allowing him to "get under your skin," you are clearly teaching your darling grandchild that it is O.K. for a man to treat a woman this way. Guess what type of man she will gravitate to when she is older? Is that what you want?

You have the power to change it. You are smart and courageous and God-loving. Use the talents that God is giving you -- she didn't give them to you to ignore.

We love you in a spiritual and giving way.
HUGS