#5,
I am so sorry. I apparently misunderstood one of your posts. I thought I saw a post about you fighting not to drink and I took it to mean you were alcoholic. I am glad to hear you are not. You don't need more problems.

As Dianne posted, it is wise to plot your escape rather than taking off unprepared. If you run away without preparation, you might have to come crawling back. Sometimes abused women purposely escape into impossible circumstances in order to justify coming back. Of course time may not be in your favor if your husband is using it to plot against you.

I'm sure you will make the best decision.

smile