I tried so hard not to be a mom like the one I had that I think I overdid it. I was the fun mom, the silly mom, the strick but fun-loving mom.

When my girls needed new clothes I made sure they got them and always complimented them on how beautiful they were, how smart, how precious they are to me and still do.

I tried to coach their dad in how to give them his approval and blessing so they would look for a good man to marry.

Anyway, I've forgiven my mom, but still should know by now not to look to her for love and approval or encouragement.