me too! And I agree -- there's lots of bad stories out there. I had a few of my own first. And I met them in person! LOL!

Your point is great, though. Wherever we meet someone we believe we love, we need to wait, think, pray, meditate, whatever and take time to get to know this person inside and out. I was a great rusher (still am, to some degree), ready to take the plunge. Anything so I wouldn't be alone and prove my father right (he told me I was too independent and no one would ever marry me). It was only when I decided I was just fine by myself, thank you very much, that true love came into my life.