Number5, you are wonderful, and youare doing everything to care for everyone but yourself. that concerns me.

I think it's great that you are helping your daughter, but I think it is wise of you to set limits with her. Give her a time frame to work with. I will help you until such a date, and then you are on your own. Tough love is incredibly hard, but in the end you may both have your independence, and your lives back. Thoughts?