Oh Newleaf, first off I am sorry about your surgery, not what you needed at all. I am going to make this short by agreeing with all that Casey said above. Its good advice. You know and we know from you, that this creep is a loser of the worst kind. Use him and whatever he has for as long as necessary BUT do it while backing away slowly into your new life without the likes of him. No man could ever be more obvious in his dislike of you nor his disinterest in you could he? I think you hit the nail on the head several times by saying, hes interested in the inheritance he believes you're getting, he is afraid of losing the veterans married benefit and hes spent ALL the money from the house sale. This jerk is a slimy toad and you best distance yourself from him and DO NOT allow this lying abuser into your home, he means you no good....Oh and welcome back!