Have you heard this quote before, Popea?

-- Be aware that a halo has to fall only a few inches to be a noose.
Dan McKinnon

If I have learned anything as I've grown older, then it's similar to what Chatty says; tell them to "&^%$#&*# under your breath...only I wouldn't be smiling sweetly, I'd turn my back and leave till they; full of wonderment, pain, and hurt call and say "What's wrong?" Then you are sitting on the throne, for a change.