Thank you, Mountain Ash. Then my intuitive feeling that the people around us tried their best for us is probably true. I haven´t actually considered my own shattered self at the time and therefore my oversenitive response to some of these fellow humans. Somehow tho, as I wrote earlier, I did feel that they were trying..trying to reach us in their own way. Let us know that they cared.. What I don´t agree with at this point are pamphlets or kits telling you how to act or what to say to people that are going thru a difficult time. These things take away the sincerity that you are talking about..
Humlan
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"some sacred place.."