okay...thank you for your advice...I'm in the middle of "The Gift Of Love" my birthday was the second of november and my sister Dee sent me pictures of our lives when we were babies our homes.....oh I'm in such shock...filled with love for our lifes we now have "together".....I'll try and write more and say thank you for your help...my sister Dee has completely kept me in tears of joy...oh I love her!