Lion,
I'm so sorry for your loss. this is the worst time of the year to deal with that. We lost my SIL Dec. 23, 2 years ago and we all still feel it.

I'm sure you will make the right decision Ruby.

Yesterday I found a gift that I had bought for my Dad, early Christmas gift, that I forgot about when I left to go care for him. You can imagine how my day went after that.
Anyway, I'm glad we are all here for each other!
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